Abdullah Ibn Amr ibn al-Aas narrated that Mohammed(s.a.w) said "Command your children to make salah when they become seven years old and spank them for it when they become ten years old and arrange their beds (to sleep) separately"
[Abu Dawud]
1. Make constant dua in sujood- The dua of Ibrahim(a.s) ( S14:40-41 )substituting Rab for Allahumma to make this permissible as it is not allowed to recite Quran in sujood.
2. Teach child to build good habits, teaching them that salah is a normal part of their every day lives.
3. Children should know how to do salah by the age of 7, and should be reminded for each salah at this age.
4. By the age of 10, children should be disciplined by slight physical punishment which does not hurt them physically but which hurts their feelings and teaches them a lesson.
5. Lead by example
6. Consistency on the part of the parents-By making a big show of preparation when going to the masjid for salah so children are aware Dad is going to pray at the masjid, or when they are being woken up for fajr and adhan is sounding from the computer and from the living room or bedroom. You can have multiple adhans going on at this time.
7. Parent should get up first and make wudu, so child does not have to wait on the parents.
8. Teach rituals of salah, Adhan, Tasbeeh, different surahs, duas.
9. Make Musalla or specific prayer area in your house, so salah is always on their minds.
10. Create salah enviroment in the house.
11. This must happen before puberty.
12. After the age of 8 or 9, teach them the virtue and benefits of salah and doing the sunnahs- for ex that if they do the sunnahs they will get a house in jannah etc.
13. If they quit saying salah after they reach puberty and you have taught them, then you are not responsible for their actions. But if you have never taught them, then you are responsible if they do not pray as adults.
12. Teenagers learn well from friends. Try to create a social environment where your child learns well with kids who are a good influence.
14. Kids should practice sunnahs as soon as possible.
15. Make Jummua very special for kids by having special clothes for them which are reserved only for Jummuah.
16. Start your preparation for Jummuah the night before, and come to Jummuah salah as early as possible.Make it a point to reach the masjid before the imam greets with salaam and stands up to make the khutbah..
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